Living in the society

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Assalamualaikum w.b.t

God I'm so tired. 
Not physically but mentally and emotionally tired.
You guys should know what happen lately especially in Twitter. Right?

Last night, it was about Ayuni, a hardcore Kpopper that openly said 'I'M NOT A MALAYSIAN, I CAME FROM PLANET MATOKI.' and 'I'M A KOREAN BUT I CAN SPEAK BM VERY WELL' and something liddat. The reason? She was furious because the crowd boo-ed at VIXX and NU'EST during the SHOUT AWARD 2012. I mean like, why did she do that? I was mad too, well not because I'm a kpopper bcus I'm not now, but I used to be one. I was mad because some of the Malaysian was being a total immature person by boo-ing and some even said they throw things while the boys were performing. That was unacceptable really. I mean like, we're mad when The Reader's Digest once stated that Malaysian was once of the rudest country but when we did that, didn't it approve the statement? Didn't it? Okay enough with the incident well because everyone makes mistakes.
Okay. And the Ayuni thingy, she made a mistake too. Maybe she was too emotional. Well, PEREMPUAN, kan? We can get super mad and emotional over little things. Ayuni should realize now that her statement makes the whole fandom of Kpopper looks BAD. Her actions gives people bad impression on Kpoppers and how Kpop influence people. Well, maybe she does now and I do hope she'll reactivate her twitter and apologize to the rest of the Malaysians. And also, Malaysians  who bashed her, INCLUDING me should apologize to her for judging and criticizing without thinking further. Sorry, Ayuni. 

Okay. I thought twitter drama was gonna end until today, I opened twitter and there was this thing about Lyana Evans. I was like, 'Who the eff is she?'. Then someone gave me her tweethandle and read through her tweets. She was swearing her father with bad words like 'Babi' and so on. She even prayed for the death of him! I was like '*Istighfar* why on earth would she do that?' and as usual, tweets of bashing her starts to appear on my timeline. Well, as the part of the society, I kinda bashed her too. But then, I saw this one tweet,

"You said Lyana Evans is an attention seeker but you guys are the one who's giving her the attention."

And then i was like, 'Woah he's right.'
And I then stop to care about her. Came to think about it, tweet dia tak banyak pun -.-' and when i scroll down her tweethandle, tweet first dia pun dah pasal ayah dia. I started to think, is this a troll account or what? Or maybe she's really an attention seeker. Hmm. Wallahualam. Tak baik bersangka buruk. Okay.

Then just now, tonight, another drama starts. This time, it's about a girl who wants to suicide just bcus her boyfriend cheated on her. I was like 'WTF?! TAKKAN PASAL JANTAN NAK BUNUH DIRI BAGAI?' erghhh drama drama drama. Another attention seeker i guess. Or mybe another troll account, who knows? This time, i really dgaf -.- i felt like, this is ridiculous.

Honestly, I'm so tired of twitter now. Twitter dah bukan mcm dulu. It's full of DRAMAS. Twitter is like a theater. With bad actors and bad crowd. I mean, what I'm trying to say, the actors are the ones who came up with ridiculous things just to get attention and the bad crowd are the ones who boo-ed and bashed at them.

But observe carefully. The society may say 'IDGAF.' IT'S A LIE. Well maybe some of them really dgaf but MOST OF THEM DO. They do GAF. They give the attention to the people that they themselves call 'ATTENTION SEEKER.' Well, what can you say. THIS IS THE SOCIETY WE'RE LIVING IN. WE CAN'T EVADE FROM GETTING IN OTHER PEOPLE'S BUSINESS. No matter how hard we try not give our attention about other people, we will. It's a norm. 

I'm not pointing out the mistakes or putting the blame on other people. I belong in the society too. So, I too, did those things. I'm not trying to be an ANGEL. I'm not perfect. I make mistakes too. Hey, WE ALL DO. Okay? What I'm trying to do here is, reminding people and ALSO MYSELF, not be to be so judgmental and criticize people easily. We all have our reasons when we're doing something. Just maybe, when anger and sadness conquers us, we'll tend to act base on our emotions, not mind which sometimes will result in bad actions.

I don't have the power to change how the society acts and thinks, but maybe by this little post of mine,  I can influence my readers and my readers will spread my opinion and we can change ourselves and at last, change the society. We are the society afterall :)

The End xx