Distances don't kill relationships

by

Ehemm Assalamualaikum.

 Well let's not question about why suddenly, in the middle of a calm monday night, i wanna talk about this. It's random actually. 

 Honestly to me, I'm tired of listening to the phrase 'Distance KILLS relationship.' Yeah maybe it does. But only IF you take distance in the negative way then yes, it kills relationship. But try to look distance as something positive. Being far apart from each other is HARD. I know. Been there done that. I mean like, you're always curious about your partner. Loads and loads of 'What If's question on your mind. Then these 'What If's question leads to negative thoughts like,

"What If he meets someone else? Way better than me? What if he's not faithful? What if he hangs out with a bunch of other girls then fell for her? What if he doesn't recognize me as his girlfriend to his friends there? What If he admits he's single?" and yadaaa yadaaa. Yeah. 

 Distance tests our level of faithful towards our partner. And of course, TRUST is important. STRENGTH too. You have to be FAITHFUL and TRUST your partner. And be STRONG. It's okay to be suspicious but to be EXTREMELY SUSPICIOUS, it annoys. And yes, being extremely suspicious can lead to break ups. If there's any spark of suspicious in your heart, then pray to Him that nothing bad will happen to your relationship. Actually, distance teaches us to be more faithful. And the pain of missing each other, it's sweet. Well of course you can't avoid jealousy but do control that feeling. Don't let it be something that can affect your relationship. 

 Relationship is for two people. Means both side has to work out to make the relationships smooth going and perfect. If only one people trying hard to make the relationship going, then it's not going to work. Plus, if you're working out on long distance relationships. What's important is TRUST, FAITH AND STRENGTH. If you guys don't have these things, then you guys might as well as be single.

 Okay well, that wrap ups my babbling session. Seriously, this is so random. Straight from the heart, to the keyboard. This is my personal opinion. I'm not trying to be a love doctor or counselor or what. Just freely expressing what I personally think about LOVE and DISTANCE. It's up to you how to take DISTANCE in relationships.

 Bye and Assalamualaikum. Thanks for reading :)
p/s: Omg Ameyza why suddenly talking about relationships? I sound so freakingly matured -.-'